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  • Being with someone for the first time...?

    What is it like to be with someone in a relationship for the first time? If you know what I mean? I am not talking about girl to guy, I am talking about guy to guy. I have never been in a relationship with anyone in my life. After coming out of the closet, I am curious to know what is was like experiencing a relationship with another guy for the first time? I am having a lot of trouble with this and I want to see what some of you have to say about that first "love."

    The toughest thing for me, that I have posted about here before, is really likeing somone, but them not giving anything back. For the life of me, I felt something between us, but the realtionship and connection wasn't taking off, so I pretty much gave up. Of course the person was the love and desire of my life and it crushed me when I couldn't have them and love them.

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    Re: Being with someone for the first time...?

    Originally posted by DisneyMickey
    The toughest thing for me, that I have posted about here before, is really likeing somone, but them not giving anything back. For the life of me, I felt something between us, but the realtionship and connection wasn't taking off, so I pretty much gave up. Of course the person was the love and desire of my life and it crushed me when I couldn't have them and love them.
    Wow..i had the same thing happen to me... it is tough..I am only 15...so I have not had much relationship experienc(none to tell you the truth) hope yp find someone that makes you happy

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    • #3
      Re: Being with someone for the first time...?

      Dear DM,

      You will have failure. You will have success. But there's only one way to find out. And that is, live life. It's a process. Don't try so hard. I know it's lonely and it's easy for me to say, being married and all--but it's true. I was lonely once. And when you come out of the closet, you don't know--society hasn't filled in the gaps that other people learn in the process of growing up.

      Luckily, there are resources--like this board, for one. With every experience, you learn more. It's what you do with that information that makes you who you are in the end.

      For example, you date a pile of dirt. You decided you don't like said pile of dirt. But after you break up, you move to a similar pile of dirt.

      You didn't learn.

      Look farther. You think you are really crazy about someone but they don't return it to you. Hmm. Either you or him had vastly different perceptions of your relationship. You need to sit down with yourself and figure out how you will handle that the next time.

      Is any of this making sense? Yeah, how deep can I be with just words on the screen? Still, I want you to know, it does all work out, I do believe that.

      It's just a pain in the b*** getting there.

      Hang in there. You aren't alone.

      Peace to you,
      Roo
      husband, petowner, wordsmith, imagineer, martialist, playwright, traveller, ardent, wit, critic, barista, Taoist, superhero, fortuneteller, reader, fidget, teacher, dreamer, author, blogger, ghosthunter, voter, patient, bear, gourmand, Floridian, friend

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        Re: Being with someone for the first time...?

        First love really ends up being a bad memory. It's a rollercoaster, you don't know what you're doing, it usually ends with sore spots. But it also has the distinguish of being your first, so make a good choice. But first loves don't work.

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        • #5
          Re: Being with someone for the first time...?

          You're gay too Kevie?

          Anyway... I'm also 15 but I've haven't had my first love yet... oh well... In the words of the Wise Snow White:

          Someday My Prince Will Come... :ap:
          I have a dream
          A song to sing
          To help me cope
          Trough everything

          If you see the wonder
          of a FairyTale
          You can take the future
          even if you fail...

          I believe in Angels
          Something good in everything I see
          I believe in Angels
          When I know the time is right for me...

          I'll cross the stream.... I have a dream

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          • #6
            Re: Being with someone for the first time...?

            ooops sorry double post
            I have a dream
            A song to sing
            To help me cope
            Trough everything

            If you see the wonder
            of a FairyTale
            You can take the future
            even if you fail...

            I believe in Angels
            Something good in everything I see
            I believe in Angels
            When I know the time is right for me...

            I'll cross the stream.... I have a dream

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            • #7
              Re: Being with someone for the first time...?

              lol...Snow White...That is who I keep getting on those "Which Disney princess are you" Quizzes....

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              • #8
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                Wow....I must be bored ...I cant believe I posted..that RaNdOm Post...

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                • #9
                  Re: Being with someone for the first time...?

                  God, I just want to slap you
                  What an idiot....

                  Yeah, I do that Twitter thing.

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                  • #10
                    Re: Being with someone for the first time...?

                    first love ( wear a glove!! ) & last love WEAR A GLOVE!! ) YOU WANT TO EXPREIENCE FIRST LOVE, DO IT THE RIGHT WAY AND BE RESPONSIBLE ENOUGH SAID NOW PLAY NICE

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                    • #11
                      Re: Being with someone for the first time...?

                      woy so dirty....but really clean...

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                      • #12
                        Re: Being with someone for the first time...?

                        Originally posted by I_am_hilsbro
                        woy so dirty....but really clean...
                        LOL! your right, !!

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                        • #13
                          Re: Being with someone for the first time...?

                          First relationships are tough. Sometimes things may end up badly between the two of you, and other times you may become the best of friends!

                          The best piece of advice I can give you is to put yourself out there and see what happens, things can be difficult but as time goes on you will begin to understand the way things work. I wish you the best, and you can PM me any time if you need to talk.
                          Originally posted by drunkmom
                          this is my first buzzed post in the DMCA -- I'm really in this club because I'm a bitch more than anything. I've only had to hit the backspace 4 (oops, make that 5) times in (now 7) in this (now 9) (now 15) in this post! Damn, now I'm up to 18! Our neighbors were (19) (20) making tequilla sunrises. I thought I couldn't do tequilla (22) anymore but (24) this stuff (26) was good! It started (27) with an s


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                          • #14
                            Re: Being with someone for the first time...?

                            Well first love is not easy at all, You give yur all sometimes and you get nothing in return you compermise and still get nothing i don't know i have had my heartbroken sooooooo many times its not even funny then i stoped looking and now all of a sudden everyone wants a peice of me its nice to be loved and wanted my advice is don't rush into anything take your time geting to know him you may feel a conection but it chould just be pure lust so take your time and get to know your feelings thats the best advice i can give sorry if im no help
                            ~I Am Finally Just Me~

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                            • #15
                              Re: Being with someone for the first time...?

                              Originally posted by Tui
                              God, I just want to slap you
                              I second that.

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